YOU AND I IGNITE LIKE ALL THE STARS BETWEEN US

POSTED AUGUST 11, 2011 FILED UNDER LIFE • 12 COMMENTS In my previous entry, I said that I was pretty much alone because one of my best friends failed a unit? Lately, I’m just not sure what to do with her. For the last past weeks I feel like I’ve been talking to a wall. Whenever I try asking her […]

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POSTED AUGUST 11, 2011 FILED UNDER LIFE • 12 COMMENTS

In my previous entry, I said that I was pretty much alone because one of my best friends failed a unit? Lately, I’m just not sure what to do with her.

For the last past weeks I feel like I’ve been talking to a wall. Whenever I try asking her anything or bringing up anything, she merely replies with little energy, ‘hmmmm.’ Her despondent attitude lately has made all my other friends a little fed up – and I slightly am too.

understand that she’s depressed because of her failing and that she has a jerk of a boyfriend (I’ll elaborate on that later). And I know that as friends we should be trying to support her as much as possible but her attitude of late is wearing thin. My other friends said that she was being selfish but I’m not sure what to think. Of course she’s going to be depressed that she failed…

Her boyfriend is a jerk. I hate him and while I only met him once, my impression of him after hearing her stories has only worsened. He’s 29 – 10 years older than her – and while I’m not judging, one has to think why after so many years, he hasn’t been able to maintain long-term relationship.

He’s a tight-ass. I have no idea what he does with his money but EVERYTIME they go out to eat, she has to pay. None of this 50/50 stuff. The only time he paid was when she asked him to but after that he gave her the cold shoulder. Seriously? He’s working full time while she’s still a student working only a couple hours a week.

She complains to me. And I tell her to either confront him about it properly or dump him. She’s told me countless times that she’s going to dump him but she never seems to go through with it. I’m under the impression that she’s afraid of being alone but wouldn’t you rather be alone than feeling worthless in a relationship? :(

She won’t listen to any of us when we talk about her failing or her boyfriend. Nothing’s getting through. She keeps complaining and when we suggest something, she doesn’t listen.

I don’t know. I know I can’t force her to do anything but it’s so disheartening to be helpless in watching someone become a ghost of themself.

In other news, I didn’t win anything for the Between The Lines contest (but awesome Amano came 3rd! Congrats bb). I suppose my icons aren’t that pretty and simplistic :S

I think my friend’s gloom is spreading *flees*

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YOU AND I IGNITE LIKE ALL THE STARS BETWEEN US